Flying Toddlers

When we were growing up, I would remember several instances where we will be left under the care of our Aunt for several days while our parents would travel for holiday. When they got back I vividly remember once having a battery operated helicopter toy as gift from their Manila travel. Traveling in the 80's with children might have been such a nightmare for parents here in the Philippines. With air travel so limited, most would probably take the ships to travel to and from the different islands of our country. Besides, this was the 80's when disposable diapers where not the usual fare for mothers. It must have been really hard even if you had a yaya or nanny in tow.

Last year, I needed to travel with a one-yr old. I've done all the preps. His baby bag becomes my fashionable handbag and I opted to carry him (as he still couldn't walk) rather than bringing a body carrier or a stroller (he had one in our destination). I also prepared milk so that when we fly he sucks the bottle and wouldn't experience air pressure inside his tiny ears. Besides, this was a 30-minute flight, how bad could it be?

My first hurdle was checking in, thank heavens I had a four-wheel luggage bag that made it easy for me to push and endorse to the airline counter. So now I have baby bag and the toddler. Whew! Next hurdle was the final check-in, a bit easy since I only have the baby bag.

But when I got it, I remembered seeing a sign before in my previous trips that said Airport Playroom. So I asked one of the airport personnel if there was a playroom in the Iloilo Airport. And yes, there was! In fact, I was pleasantly surprise because the Iloilo Toddlers Area was very spacious and clean. The personnel in-charge was very accommodating and even told me that they have a breast-feeding room and changing table ready for use. I think most local airports have this already. I saw one in Davao but it wasn't as spacious as the one in Iloilo.

Don't let the "Massage" sign fool you, look up ...
The entrance to the Toddler & Nursing Mother Station at Iloilo Airport

The hallway leading to the play area

Play area which includes a TV showing child-friendly shows

Closer look at the play area, it also has lots of books!

As the sign says, one guardian only per child

So I put down the toddler and made him play on the rubber mat. Whew! Baby care duties made easy! And our flying from Iloilo to Cebu was a breeze ... I was just the adult who got stressed but the toddler just dozed off and woke up just in time for landing!

The wonders of modern living ... now flying with a toddler isn't that bad at all! 

Mrs Jane B.

Practical Choice ... Budget Hotels - GO Hotel Otis

As I was assigned to Visayas and Mindanao, I had the customary meetings in Manila for HO (head office) updates and alignments. I would usually stay at our condo in Mandaluyong. My former boss, a fellow Bisdak (someone who hails from VisMin and speaks Bisaya) is always so kind to pass by me, as we live within the same area, and give me a ride to the Head Office. My other option was to borrow a "spare car" from the office so I can drive myself to and from my condo. 

Last year, Manila started having all these road rehab and construction projects. Driving within the Metro meant extra minutes of travel. I was horrified one-time of driving from Bel Air Makati to Greenhills Shopping Center for 1.5hrs on a Sunday when EDSA was being rehabilitated. This wouldn't take more than 30mins on a normal Sunday at 1030am!!!

So I re-assessed my accommodations when I visit Manila for work. I was told of the new Go Hotel at Otis which is just across the office. And so I did. Now, I've never been to a Go Hotel before but this hotel is very near our Head Office, a good 5-10min walk. It's marketed as a budget/value hotel. It doesn't serve breakfast, it has no restaurants (but it's within the Robinsons Otis Mall that has restos), no pool, no spa, no gym, no in-house massage, no meeting rooms or business center, no free water or coffee/tea and it's a bring-your-own personal amenities kit otherwise pay P99 for a kit. They do provide the usual towels, bathmat, handsoap and shampoo, and free wifi. There is a vendo that sells water, assorted drinks, chips, and hot drinks like coffee and chocolate to satisfy your food cravings or you can always go down and shop at the Robinsons supermarket.

This is their single bed room. Rooms on maximum can really just accommodate 

2 adults and max of 2 kids under 6 years old.

Room rates so far averages at Php1,300/night whether single or two beds. Well, if you check their website, they have offers lower than this. For a Manila hotel with the amenities available, this is value already for me. And this place is still new, so it doesn't have that old building smell. Their rooms do not have carpets though and so do the halls ... this means sound absorption may be a problem and you can hear echos if people talk too loud in the halls.

There is no breakfast place or resto, and you're not supposed to eat inside your room. So, Go Hotel provides you with an outside eating area that can double up as a lounging area as well. We had a typhoon today, and decided to order delivery and we just ate our dinner at the hall below. 

This is a view of their hall. Notice the yellow table where my work notebook is? 

Newspapers are also provided for.

I've also noticed that most of the people who book rooms here are either students reviewing for some exam, families (probably vacationing in Manila) and some foreigners. They look decent, not at all weirdos, so far! And today, I think it has people checking in because some areas of Manila have no electricity and water. A value for money hotel that can solve these temporary concerns caused by a typhoon.

So, I've stayed here in most of my stays in Manila. It allows me to be close to the office, not be stuck in traffic or drive for hours ... it's almost like a dorm within our office! So I say, it's a practical choice when in the Manila area. You may want to try it!

Mrs Jane B. 

World Cup 123

My husband and I traveled to Europe few weeks back. Main reason for our trip was to attend my cousin's wedding who's based on Rotterdam or R'Dam. We arrived in R'Dam via the Eurostar and Thalys from London. We were so lucky as the hotel we were booked in was very close to the city center and Koopgoot.

So as we were walking around, we noticed that the stores were decorated in orange. So we thought, ah, maybe they're celebrating a holiday, something like St Patrick's day where it's green ... There were a lot of orange stuff across the different stores so we never really connected it to ... FIFA and the WORLD CUP!!! There was so much merchandise about it. There was even an orange lion dancing outside the door of the McDonald's across the Hema store. 

So one night, we had dinner with the cousins and my uncle and we went to this Dudok place. There was absolutely almost no one in the resto, the streets were sooooo silent and because it was cold, we thought, well maybe people are inside their homes.

NO! Everyone were in the pubs watching the game between Netherlands and Australia! When we arrived at our hotel, the lobby looked like a war zone because people spilled from the bar to the reception area. YUP! The World Cup is soooo huge diay in Europe! I completely forgot! And what we didn't know was that the Oranje Team -- Netherland's team is a strong contender for the finals!!!

Even in our room, we could hear the roar of the people watching in the hotel lobby and the people in their homes when the Oranje team made a goal (we opened our windows to have some fresh air in, no aircon needed). WOW! Murag  Pacquiao Fight lang ang peg! I would want to watch it but my hotel cable has no coverage!!!

So I will just have to wait it out! I'm sure Jamie, Chi-wai and Tita Esther are waiting for the game to start!

Sample of World Cup POSM in a store

Here Brian is eating the famous stroopwafel but check out the Sloggi Billboard in the background

Mrs Jane B

Red Yellow Green

Remember in nursery or kindergarten you had this song, "beep-beep the small jeep is coming down the street, stop, look and listen 2x, beep-beep the small jeep is coming down the street"? I remembered this toy that our teacher uses to explain the meaning of the traffic lights. You could dismantle it, then close the different lights to show the color ... can you remember this toy? Probably my classmates in San Carlos would.

Well I checked the internet and all I could find was this pic, it's the closest to that toy in kindergarten.

I am no wondering if the schools have stopped (private and public) teaching this in school. I drive around today with my recovering ankle and I get these crazy pedestrians crossing when the light is soooo GREEN! My dad said I should excuse these people "kay basi wala sila kita ug traffic light sa ila bukid". WAHAT? No dad, I only saw "palay" in books and saw real "palay" when I was in college during a field trip ... so really in this day and age, "wa pa kakita ug traffic light"? 

Do people know what the lights mean? Honestly, this is very basic. Schools should teach children road signs and safety as part of, I don't know Social Studies or Homeroom Sessions or Social Graces (mommy friends, do kids still have this?). 

Or you know like, when walking one should be able to identify the safe side. Do you know where it is? Hala, patay basi absent mo sa class when this was discussed. You should be able to see the incoming traffic and that is the side you should be walking. When I drive and I see a grown-up letting a child walk along the danger side ... my gosh, ganahan gyud ko manaog ug kasab-an ang adult and teach them that children should be walking in the inner side of the road or sidewalk (if there is any). And this goes for motorcycles too!!!

Really, people take road safety for granted! They expect other people to do that for them! I really think schools can help educate our children and parents alike on this one. It's a simple song that can save lives!

"Beep-beep the small jeep is coming down the street, stop, look and listen 2x, beep-beep the small jeep is coming down the street".

Mrs Jane B. 

Starting Sunday Right ... The Reason Why I Go to Certain Churches

Sundays always start slow but it's never complete without hearing mass and going to church. It has become a habit for me and my family for years. I'm not religious, but I would like to believe i have healthy relationship with God and I'm comfortable with my faith. I thank my parents for this!

When I was studying in UP Diliman and away from home at 16, me and my friends would walk from Kalayaan during freshmen year or from Molave to the Parish of the Holy Sacrifice. It's an open type of chapel, it's round or circular and the altar is at the center. We spent Sundays praying for good grades or passing grades, for friendship, for protection, for love ... a college student's usual wish. Those cool simbang gabi masses we used to go, wishing for Christmas to come because it means going home once again!

Here is a pic of the church which I just got from the internet. I can't seem to find my own photos.

After college, I went home and worked in Cebu for 2yrs but had to leave home once again and look for work in Manila. I got to work in an MNC, Unilever Phils., and was initially based in Makati near Bel-Air. Reposo St., now renamed as Nicanor Garcia St., is one of the most beautiful streets in Makati for me. It's a long 2-way street with trees lining the whole stretch and lots of local restos, places of interest.

What's great about Reposo is that, the St Andrew The Apostle Church is in the middle of it and lucky me, this church is just a walk away from my place in Makati (good 5-10min walk). I love this church, more the people and the parish priests that run the church. It's very orderly, the choir has very good choice of songs -- I only sing during Holy Mass, families come to pray and celebrate, it always felt good clapping my hands after every Sunday mass. The parish had a lot of activities for the community, relevant ones like values education for household help, there were always announcement of LSS activities ... it makes you feel you belong to this community!

But what I cannot forget were the roses given to Mothers on Mother's Day, how the priest would sing a song for them, the special blessings given to married couples on Valentine's Day, those special ceremonies that made the church reach out to the mass-goers --- this was a community, a parish indeed. The church is semi-circle in shape, now it's fully air-conditioned but before when I started going there in 1998 it was just the electric fans ...

Here is an outside pic of the St Andrew, again I got this from the internet images. Despite the 5-6yrs we stayed in Makati we never got to take a pic of this church.

When we transferred to Mandaluyong, we still continued to go to St Andrew. It always felt like home for Bri and Me. On a Sunday this church would be a good 15min drive.

When mom got sick and there were days it became unbearable and I just needed to pray and talk to God, to ask for strength, for healing ... I would drive to St Andrew but then it closes at 9pm and from the office in Manila, would only give me 30min inside the church. I would like a candle and pray outside. This church has been part of my life, when in Manila I would always try to find time to go to mass here.

As the years passed, and I spent my alone years in Manila with Bri starting his practice in Cebu. Driving to Makati became hard for me, hard because I had to do all the chores at the condo. I needed to save time. So I started going to the Edsa Shrine, yes, people would probably say, that's a mall-church. I was skeptical, St Andrew was hard to beat. This church is a good 10min away, shorter than Makati.

But surprisingly, the Edsa Shrine is a parish of it's own. Yes, I may not see the routine families who go to the 10am mass in St Andrew every Sunday but the sense of community was very much alive. The choir's choice of popular songs made it easy for me to transition to the new parish! The people who go (at least to the 930am mass), seem to be really praying, praising and celebrating the mass. This was important for me. I do not like going to church with seatmates just discussing their daily lives!

On days, I felt lonely, all alone in the big city, I would drive there, pray, attend mass. Just sit and pray! The church is actually so comforting despite the big mall beside it.

An inside pic of the Edsa Shrine altar, the cross is greenish glass. I got this from the internet again.

Now back in Cebu, and when we're here, we would go to San Nicolas parish near the Pasil & Taboan (fish market). Mom served this church as a member of YLAC (Young Ladies Association for Charity). She would don her gray uniform every Sunday for the 9am mass and take care of collection. It came natural for me to go there when I got back home.

It's a big church, very airy, it's old and it participates in the "sugat fluvial parade" during the Feast of the Sto. Nino every January. I love this church as well, because it's not pretentious, people go there to pray, to give thanks to celebrate! It is a community, and I love going there because of this. Same as St Andrew, there are the "regulars" who you may not know their names but know their faces as you go bow down, smile and say, "peace be with you".

Here is a pic of the inside of San Nicolas, grabbed from the internet. I can't seem to find the pic I posted in FB.

So I guess, we go to a certain church because the place, the people have meaning to you. I wish for those who have not made it a habit to spend an hour with God every week to seek out that place of comfort where you want to worship, pray, give thanks and celebrate!

Mrs Jane B.

Because life begins ...

It's July 2014 and it has been awhile since I posted anything in this blog. Must be two years since ... but I feel like re-starting once again with writing about a lot of topics on Cebu, VisMin, life as a career woman or a salesman, married life, kids, family ...

So life begins anew with this blog, let's see where this will take us!